Yes I am a Flirt...

Recently a night out with my girl caused me to reflect on my inner workings, romantically. My boy Prentice's weekly event was poppin' and with the "just right" sized crowd, I found myself in my element. I am a flirt, no that's not the epiphany, I've always know this! I make sure to let any man I am dealing with know this ahead of time, to save us both any headaches. I am a true flirt! I flirt with men and women, I make eye contact, I'm quite touchy feely and its all geniue. But as far as the men who pique my interest beyond the normal flirting routine, I often found myself wondering when my desire to flirt wans and what makes it rage?

Most of the men around me, my boys, all say that my logic, relationship wise, is very spot on for that of a male. Though I often remind them that I am in fact ALL WOMAN, I finally understood what they mean. I love the rush of a new romance, the uncharted terroitory, because of this I have "Relationship ADD."

Now do not misunderstand, I am firmly uphold monogamy when in a committed relationship. But again everyone's definition of cheating is different, so by cheating I'm refering to sexual relations. Emotionally, I can not say that I have been completely faithful in every relationship, and I do understand to some that's just as bad as physically cheating.

So here is the distinction, being a woman I do require a certain amount of attention (alot), for me it is a pretty balanced amount of mental and physical. But unlike alot of women, I can move on or lose interest quite quickly, especially if I am not getting the amount of attention I would like.

Now, as far as flirting is concerned, I just recently discovered that I suffer from "Flirting A.D.D!" SHOCKED FACE ! The appeal of flirting is that is is fun, carefree, sexy, only a tad bit scandolous and harmless (most of the time). My flirting desire dies down once one of these characteristics are no longer in the mix. Most importantly if I'm being ignored!!!! I can not have a flirt session by myself.

Flirting is a game, the trick to a great match is to keep each other wanting more but never with the feeling of being lead on. Flirting can turn into to romantic trysts, I mean, we all know this. But most of the time flirting is done because either one or both parties are in situations/relationships that are somewhat, if not completely, fufilling but do find each other attractive and interesting.

Every once and a while I come across a man who is just as good at flirting as I am. He gives the right amount of attention for a flirt partner. Saids the right things, and does not back down or get intimited by a woman who knows the "wonders" of flirting. Sometimes if our situations change it leads to exploring a real relationship. Most of the time though, our situations keeps us strictly flirting but with a great friendship. These men are great flirts because they never cross a major line, they do not become a nuisance, and besides being sexy in their own way they know how to translate this with words, and actions.

I have said all of this just to say Yes! I am a flirt!!! I may have flirted with you, but if you are one of the unlucky flirts who hasn't master the art of flirting, I have just told you why The Bombshell has stopped flirting with you!!!