COME INTO THE WORLD OF AN URBAN BOMBSHELL!: In 2010 is the threat of releasing a sex tape really a threat?

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!

Okay so the Bombshell is grown and has been for a while now, so when comes to getting her "freak on" I gets it in. What does that mean, that means, I push my limitations sexually, and in this case electronically. No, not everyone gets the "business" but it does get doled out from time to time. Now with this disclaimer out of the way I shall get to the real grime.

A couple days ago unbeknownst to me a certain person asked a favor of me via instant messenger, I never got the request and the very next instant message I received was of him "cussing" me out. After a message from me was sent effectively scolding him for his childish tantrum (hey if you act like a child I shall treat you like one) his response was to continue with his "your stupid, I'm better than you...blah blah blah" tirade and to spice things up "oh an your video is on some amatuer porn sites so don't be surprised if you do get recognized lol !" This is an actual quote from his message...fyi.

I am not going to lie, apart of me got a little embarrassed, but then I remember thinking, "Wow people still use that as a threat?" I mean, this is not a solo video at all, he is very much present...and dare i say vocally enjoying the sexual acts being performed. So if he is not embarrassed with putting a video out with his "junk" prominently displayed, and his "bitch-like" pleasure sounds, why should I be. The video itself is over 5 years old, he still has it and quite frequently watches it, as he as admitted to me in the past, thinking that would turn me on in some way. We were never a couple, and over the past years when the urge to be boo'd up came he never was a prospect, now I will admit that me stating this probably reflects poorly on me as much as him, but hey I'm grown. I can admit my mistakes, and five years ago i was definitely in a different state of mind.

I also realized that the initial panic that you get from that "threat" is not one of being in trouble but one of being told that you are horrible. I mean all of us think we know a thing or two in the sack, and to have this notion be up for public review is kind of frightening. In my case the fear was short lived, why, because my "co-star" definitely wasn't putting in much work.

With all these stars making careers out of their sex tape exploitation, can the threat of a release of one be so scary now a days? I mean what it sounds like he's saying is "I'm going to give you a different fan base !" I mean if he actually has or does decide to go through with this I guess be on the look out for the Bombshell-Affairs on the E! channel Ala "Keeping up with the Kardasians."

No but seriously just as a public service announcement to all of you, the only time the threat of a tape will cause a scandal of any sort is if the recording contains 1.) a highly ranked/known government officials 2.) A teeny bopper celebrity (preferably under age) 3.) Some sort of homosexual activity (Strictly for the fellas) and 4.) Some Group or Train type activity of a budding star.

But how about this, how about enjoy whatever sexual activity you get from someone and when its over its over. Trying to throw sexual acts whether actually documented or not in some one's face is a testament to how weak you are as an individual and also screams that you are not OVER (me) them. You come across as being bitter, to more than half of your views and your sexual performance rating may actually end up causing you more embarrassment than you planned , can you say BACKFIRE!

I think I'm going to list Sex tape etiquette .