I LOVE GROWN MEN STYLE... SO I WENT TO GQ..... HINT...I LOVE MEN IN SWEATERS....MMMMMM AND LEATHER JACKETS!!!!
UNTIL NEXT TIME HERE'S MY LIPSTICK
Wednesday, September 2
THE BOMBSHELL 3>'S MENS FASHION...
I LOVE GROWN MEN STYLE... SO I WENT TO GQ..... HINT...I LOVE MEN IN SWEATERS....MMMMMM AND LEATHER JACKETS!!!!
UNTIL NEXT TIME HERE'S MY LIPSTICK
Wednesday, August 26
THE BOMBSHELL 3>'S PATRICIA FIELD...DAMN!!!
(SHOT AUG 24TH, 2009)SO MY NEW SITE TO SHOP...I'M SHARING WITH YA'LL CAUSE IM NICE...WWW.PATRICIAFIELD.COM DAMMIT....THIS IS JUST A LIL OF WHAT CAUGHT MY EYE
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Monday, August 17
The baddest bitch vs The Bombshell!!!!
First I'm going to begin by saying...I'm so sorry for the lag between blogs! Your girl has gotten quite busy.
August 13th 2009, The Bombshell finally steps out to a night club in support of the great homie Mr. JE's birthday bash! Club Mist which used to be Loft 11, is located at 316 11th Street San Francisco, Ca. Has been completely remodeled, quite nicely I might add, but still maintains the exclusive vip glass dance floor suspended over the non-vip area. I want to thank the homie Mr. JE for the personal phone for the invite...made me feel all special and stuff. There were quite a few Bombshells in the building that night all of us with our own unique style. There were a few "bad bitches" and as always and abundance of "hot-messes " aka "NQB- NOT QUITE BOMBSHELLS!" Notice that I separated "bad bitches" and "Bombshells." I will get into the difference after these images from the party!
here is an image from The Bombshell's "bad bitch" days
My definition of a "Bad Bitch" adds a few more things to this defintion. She stays in the club, stays shopping for the new hot ness, always pulls out the daring more risque sexy ish! Up until a couple years ago that was me. Constant trips hardly ever on my dime, always showing off my assests running around with the hottest girl crew. VIP listed..drinking every night...
Then I turned 25! lol and realized the scene was old and tired. Same faces, same drama, same same same!
Now here is Urban dictionary definition for Bombshell:
"An outrageously &/ exotically attractive female. A girl whom you may make you tingle and look back twice. A girl whom you probably have wet dreams about. In other words, a goddess."
An Image of me, The Bombshell, Now!
My definition of Bombshell of course all of that definition plus...she handles her business ..treats her man like a King and carries herself like the Queen she is. Is a Fashionista and knows that though some people have to work hard for their sexiness ..others such as herself is born with it. Therefore it oozes in everything She does..no need for the extra. She is surrounded by driven, intelligent , successful people and goes out enough to be missed by all. She's humble, fun and doesn't take any shit. And does it all while constantly showcasing her femininity!!!
That is what I realized I am...Diva doesn't quite fit with me...I'm pretty low muss low fuss type of chick.
well thats all kiddies..also I have my most Bombshell image displayed with the webster dictionary definition of "Bombshell"...
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Got alot coming up so I'll keep you updated!!!
Ps. quick love to the Nvus Twins for the Love (someone was trying to hate) on MTO...get'em girls...
Until next time here's my lipstick
Wednesday, July 29
Advice from THE GIRL in the crew!
Girls! You are not as slick as you think! You are not smarter nor are you "gaming" these men!
Even without a friend like me(because I tell all the workings of females mind...especially the shady ones), these men have already figured out your "tenative purposes" alot of times from only the second conversation or second interaction with you. Also men have a pretty effective gossip tree/ something like a phone tree. They ask about you, so STOP acting like you have never given up the ass on the first date/kick session. He already knows you have! I'm tired of hearing about your stingy ass...be grown..if you have the feeling and all the proper tools are there...do whatchalike, digital underground style. Chances are it isn't going to change how he already views you. Just make sure you put it on him.... I mean do it "alicia keys, love me like you'll never see me again," style. Increase your chances of a repeat ;).
Please, Please, Please stop stressing the fact that YOU "believe" you are wifey material. Emphasis on you and believe! Is it just me, or are the most trifling, non-discretion having, lacking general direction in their life, loves drama, hoes the main ones running this line of shit! You sleep with guys under the "guise" of just needing a little something...claiming to not only understand but support the "fuck buddy agreement" but really your trying to use the pussy to lure you a man. You try to abuse his time, pop up unexpected you spew the L-word like your a recently busted open pinata! Most of the time making the poor guys that give in to your advances REGRET it! And when you are reminded of your previous acceptance of the situation you get upset, send hateful emails, text messages , voicemails. I have to tell you..if they weren't so hilarious to read or hear about I would be disgusted.
For all you independant women out there...to quote Hov "get yo independant ass out of here , question?" Am I saying its wrong to be independant?..NO! I am not evening saying it is wrong to proclaim your independance. It shows what level your on, and you should by no means settle for a man that doesn't do for himself at all. But when in proclaiming you status you are constantly hacking off the balls of any man, within a five mile radius of you...FAIL! I love the songs too...sing them at the top of my lungs in my car. I think so many of us women forget to listen to all the things they are impling in the songs. Yes she has her own, she works hard, hits the mall, looks good but at the same time she is still making HIM feel like a king. Not just because he did something nice for her..but all the time. Ladies be romantic, even when you "have " him, hell you need to work harder. Boredom will have him ready to pack his bags no matter how fine you are. Let him know you apperciate him, I have no clue where this belief comes from that you should never let a man know how you feel about him or enjoy him comes from but it is WRONG! I mean do not live your life strictly for him but let him know you enjoy him in your life.
No I am not a lesbian! I hang out with mostly men because, frankly, I love men. I was an instant daddy's girl...and have always perfered the conversation of guys since forever. Am I woman-bashing..probably a tad bit. I comes from the hope of enhancing us and helping every woman who is looking for love..to find it. We woman are too quick to blame the man when something doesn't go as our "matrimonial-trained" dreams stetched them out. I am not completely bailing out the man's role in the destruction, but I am saying that sometimes you need to have a break through and realize your major faux pas! If anything I have said describes something that you are currently or have recently done (disregard if you have learned from your mistakes and act grown for at least a year) it explains alot of the reason why you are alone or unhappy! "TAKE A LOOK AT YOURSELF, AND MAKE A CHANGE!"
I'M GONNA LEAVE YA'LL WITH A TIP
Tip: unless your actually rocking a ring and a sheet of paper to match ...you ARE NOT his wife.
Always play your position ...be it that of jumpoff, friend, girlfriend or fiance. Do look for ways to advance your role ..positive ways though.
AS ALWAYS HERE'S MY LIPSTICK,
B.E.
Monday, June 29
WACK SEX!!! WHO'S AT FAULT, REALLY?
There is nothing like hearing stories of "sex gone bad" to make you reminisce on all of your own, hilariously sad, wack sexual adventures!! I usually brag that I never have wack sex anymore, simply meaning I have reviewed my past sexual experiences, both great and not so great, and figured out not only what was done wrong by both parties (Hey even the Bombshell has an off day or two...I'm human), but also what really gets me in that ultra wild sex mood. Yes, I can reach that mood WITHOUT the aide of alcohol!
Even with all of this sexual reflection, I was still left pondering "Who is really at fault for the sex being wack?" I mean I definitely have my own theory(s) but I decided to take to my ever so handy Internet friends, to get their point of views. Twitter (http://www.twitter.com/bombshellbella) and Facebook Eve Adams Create Your Badge
did prove to be quite a help in lending me different points of views ranging from those placing blame to the romantic..and everything in between. I tell ya, there is nothing like a sex topic to get the tongues wagging (pun intended ;]).
The majority of you all believe that not just one person is to blame for wack sex, more so the chemistry between the two people. Which for the most part I agree with. When your chemistry and trust factor is unrestrained both parties are willing to push their sexual boundaries. But, and there is a but, what is the case when the attraction or sexual chemistry over the phone, Internet, in public..is crazy but once the deed is to be done it...umm falls flat? Or if the sex was bomb but all of a sudden it falls off..but the chemistry and love is still there? Who is to blame then?
Laziness! That's who... I believe that is what plays a part in even one night stands. Sex and passion is like anything else in life that you want to be great at..you have to study it and practice....hmmmm what a thing to practice too! ;) I advise y'all to act out a fantasy....be wild,be nasty,be naughty....INCREASE YOUR ORGASMS!Do it somewhere semi public...ladies pop up on your dude "Boomerang" style..trench coat..and something sinful underneath! Make a production of a wild night. Men!...be her personal pleasure slave...do anything and everything she says to please her. Do not be afraid to try something new!
I have realized that not having wack sex is more than me getting mine. It is more than me being orgasmic! It is me being totally selfish in my pleasing my partner and damn if I don't have a partner who believes in the same logic. That leaves not only one extremely satisfied Bomshell but also one equally sated handsome King!
This has been a public service announcement..!
This has been a public service announcement..!
Until next time here's my lipstick!
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Friday, June 26
WOW....I CAN'T BELIVE IT
MICHAEL JACKSON AUGUST 28TH, 1958 - JUNE 25TH 2009
R.I.P.
MY ONE OF MY FAVORITE SONGS BY MICHAEL
HERE IS A BLOG FROM HIS EX -WIFE LISA MARIE PRESSELY
JUNE 26, 2009
He Knew.
Years ago Michael and I were having a deep conversation about life in general.
I can't recall the exact subject matter but he may have been questioning me about the circumstances of my Fathers Death.
At some point he paused, he stared at me very intensely and he stated with an almost calm certainty, "I am afraid that I am going to end up like him, the way he did."
I promptly tried to deter him from the idea, at which point he just shrugged his shoulders and nodded almost matter of fact as if to let me know, he knew what he knew and that was kind of that.
14 years later I am sitting here watching on the news an ambulance leaves the driveway of his home, the big gates, the crowds outside the gates, the coverage, the crowds outside the hospital, the Cause of death and what may have led up to it and the memory of this conversation hit me, as did the unstoppable tears.
A predicted ending by him, by loved ones and by me, but what I didn't predict was how much it was going to hurt when it finally happened.
The person I failed to help is being transferred right now to the LA County Coroners office for his Autopsy.
All of my indifference and detachment that I worked so hard to achieve over the years has just gone into the bowels of hell and right now I am gutted.
I am going to say now what I have never said before because I want the truth out there for once.
Our relationship was not "a sham" as is being reported in the press. It was an unusual relationship yes, where two unusual people who did not live or know a "Normal life" found a connection, perhaps with some suspect timing on his part. Nonetheless, I do believe he loved me as much as he could love anyone and I loved him very much.
I wanted to "save him" I wanted to save him from the inevitable which is what has just happened.
His family and his loved ones also wanted to save him from this as well but didn't know how and this was 14 years ago. We all worried that this would be the outcome then.
At that time, In trying to save him, I almost lost myself.
He was an incredibly dynamic force and power that was not to be underestimated.
When he used it for something good, It was the best and when he used it for something bad, It was really, REALLY bad.
Mediocrity was not a concept that would even for a second enter Michael Jackson's being or actions.
I became very ill and emotionally/ spiritually exhausted in my quest to save him from certain self-destructive behavior and from the awful vampires and leeches he would always manage to magnetize around him.
I was in over my head while trying.
I had my children to care for, I had to make a decision.
The hardest decision I have ever had to make, which was to walk away and let his fate have him, even though I desperately loved him and tried to stop or reverse it somehow.
After the Divorce, I spent a few years obsessing about him and what I could have done different, in regret.
Then I spent some angry years at the whole situation.
At some point, I truly became Indifferent, until now.
As I sit here overwhelmed with sadness, reflection and confusion at what was my biggest failure to date, watching on the news almost play by play The exact Scenario I saw happen on August 16th, 1977 happening again right now with Michael (A sight I never wanted to see again) just as he predicted, I am truly, truly gutted.
Any ill experience or words I have felt towards him in the past has just died inside of me along with him.
He was an amazing person and I am lucky to have gotten as close to him as I did and to have had the many experiences and years that we had together.
I desperately hope that he can be relieved from his pain, pressure and turmoil now.
He deserves to be free from all of that and I hope he is in a better place or will be.
I also hope that anyone else who feels they have failed to help him can be set free because he hopefully finally is.
The World is in shock but somehow he knew exactly how his fate would be played out some day more than anyone else knew, and he was right.
I really needed to say this right now, thanks for listening.
~LMP
R.I.P.
MY ONE OF MY FAVORITE SONGS BY MICHAEL
HERE IS A BLOG FROM HIS EX -WIFE LISA MARIE PRESSELY
JUNE 26, 2009
He Knew.
Years ago Michael and I were having a deep conversation about life in general.
I can't recall the exact subject matter but he may have been questioning me about the circumstances of my Fathers Death.
At some point he paused, he stared at me very intensely and he stated with an almost calm certainty, "I am afraid that I am going to end up like him, the way he did."
I promptly tried to deter him from the idea, at which point he just shrugged his shoulders and nodded almost matter of fact as if to let me know, he knew what he knew and that was kind of that.
14 years later I am sitting here watching on the news an ambulance leaves the driveway of his home, the big gates, the crowds outside the gates, the coverage, the crowds outside the hospital, the Cause of death and what may have led up to it and the memory of this conversation hit me, as did the unstoppable tears.
A predicted ending by him, by loved ones and by me, but what I didn't predict was how much it was going to hurt when it finally happened.
The person I failed to help is being transferred right now to the LA County Coroners office for his Autopsy.
All of my indifference and detachment that I worked so hard to achieve over the years has just gone into the bowels of hell and right now I am gutted.
I am going to say now what I have never said before because I want the truth out there for once.
Our relationship was not "a sham" as is being reported in the press. It was an unusual relationship yes, where two unusual people who did not live or know a "Normal life" found a connection, perhaps with some suspect timing on his part. Nonetheless, I do believe he loved me as much as he could love anyone and I loved him very much.
I wanted to "save him" I wanted to save him from the inevitable which is what has just happened.
His family and his loved ones also wanted to save him from this as well but didn't know how and this was 14 years ago. We all worried that this would be the outcome then.
At that time, In trying to save him, I almost lost myself.
He was an incredibly dynamic force and power that was not to be underestimated.
When he used it for something good, It was the best and when he used it for something bad, It was really, REALLY bad.
Mediocrity was not a concept that would even for a second enter Michael Jackson's being or actions.
I became very ill and emotionally/ spiritually exhausted in my quest to save him from certain self-destructive behavior and from the awful vampires and leeches he would always manage to magnetize around him.
I was in over my head while trying.
I had my children to care for, I had to make a decision.
The hardest decision I have ever had to make, which was to walk away and let his fate have him, even though I desperately loved him and tried to stop or reverse it somehow.
After the Divorce, I spent a few years obsessing about him and what I could have done different, in regret.
Then I spent some angry years at the whole situation.
At some point, I truly became Indifferent, until now.
As I sit here overwhelmed with sadness, reflection and confusion at what was my biggest failure to date, watching on the news almost play by play The exact Scenario I saw happen on August 16th, 1977 happening again right now with Michael (A sight I never wanted to see again) just as he predicted, I am truly, truly gutted.
Any ill experience or words I have felt towards him in the past has just died inside of me along with him.
He was an amazing person and I am lucky to have gotten as close to him as I did and to have had the many experiences and years that we had together.
I desperately hope that he can be relieved from his pain, pressure and turmoil now.
He deserves to be free from all of that and I hope he is in a better place or will be.
I also hope that anyone else who feels they have failed to help him can be set free because he hopefully finally is.
The World is in shock but somehow he knew exactly how his fate would be played out some day more than anyone else knew, and he was right.
I really needed to say this right now, thanks for listening.
~LMP
Thursday, May 28
IF GOOD GUYS FINISH LAST THEN THE BOMBSHELL BARELY FINISHES...
So I got an email from one of my sisters. A very loving email that spoke of concern about my view on relationships amongst other topics.I am a realist-romantic! I believe in relationships, I believe in marriage and above all else I believe in LOVE. I just have an extremely real view on them..which explains why I tend to play therapist to a lot of people ...I'm honest...sometimes brutally..*I'm working on that*! But I'm not afraid to be real.." You think he's cheating ..why...okay well leave! Oh what you can't ...then stay..and shut the fuck up...and let it go..don't ask where he's going..don't make him pay...for you choosing to stay!"..for example!
I always give this disclaimer...I am no relationship Guru...I am not married nor have I found the love of my life....hell I haven't even had a relationship outside of friendship that has lasted more than a year. But I am still cool..and speak to most of my ex's and ex lovers. Though most people view this as negative, I don't! I think it gives me wisdom on a what a beautiful and loving relationship should be. I am able to sit back and realize the mistakes I've made, in my actions, in my thought process ( I tend to be stubborn and cold especially when I'm mad) and in some cases my selection in men. Men love my "guy-like" thought process women love my straight forward talk on what we (women) and men do wrong in relationships.
Even though I do, what I call a "self-check" I still find declaring my feelings to someone I'm involved with extremely difficult. And though I am doing much better in this...its almost painful to say out loud, text or email a raw emotion I have barely come to terms with myself. And though I do not regret any of my declarations...I do find it hard to not break down and be a "BW" basic woman. Its an odd situation to find one's self advising someone you barely 8 months ago told that you were in love with them, to do the same to an ex girlfriend! Or giving congratulations to not one but four past lovers on fatherhood or marriage! The sting comes..from not from them moving on but from the fact that only one out of those situations actually was caring enough to ask how I was feeling..with the news. And it wasn't the gentleman I confessed my love to.
See my belief that I won't be getting married doesn't come from thinking I'm not marriage material because of my "adventurous" views on sex, or because I believe in being a real friend before a girlfriend, or because I'm so laid back.as I have been told from a few different people! Its because ...people are not caring anymore...! They do not care for your feelings they apologize for things before they hear what has hurt you, in the first place! They do not believe or know what love really is...what is looks like!And though I long for that feeling..I have that romantic dream of being passionately in love with him and him of me...I know my deeply rooted understanding of love, loyalty and admiration will not ever be compromised ! But I support all those who have found theirs or think they have...and say...
LOVE WITHOUT FEAR AND LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY NOT JUST YOUR BELOVED BUT YOURSELF!
Until next time here's my lipstick...
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